How's your connection with your child? Do you wish it was better?

How's your connection with your child? Do you wish it was better?

Do you think; "If I had a better connection with them, maybe they'll listen more?"

Is there a quiet shame you hold within you when it comes to parenting?... It's as though you want to give the best of you to the ones you love, and yet you're not your best self when it comes to parenting.... and it's really hard especially when you feel unheard?

You want to be able to love your children with all your heart… because you know how it felt not receiving the love you needed as a child. Yet, why are you parenting your child the way your parents parented you?.. or you're doing the whole conscious parenting thing and it still seems like a struggle!... 

It’s a little ironic - as you’re someone that does the inner work. You meditate, you journal, you attend the retreats - and yet - the connection to your children, and you as a parent, is fragile.

Here’s why.

“You’re trying to solve the challenge of the connection with your children from the same mind that created the challenge”.

The mind that creates the problem, cannot be the same mind that solves it.

The root of the problem isn’t the connection. The root of your challenge is your own trigger of “I’m not enough”.

“I’m not enough as a parent - and that’s why my children don’t connect with me”. Does this resonate?

For as long as you continue to believe you are “not enough” or you’re not “doing enough”, the connection with your children would be strained.

The real work that’s needed to cultivate a deep connection to yourself as a parent - and be the parent that can love your children fully, is to learn how to heal your Generational Wounds. “I’m not enough” is one of them.

"I’m unworthy"

"I’m unlovable"

"There's something wrong with me"

"It’s better to give than to receive"

These are some of the Generational Wounds that are commonly inherited - and as long as they are in the driver’s seat of how you parent - your connection to yourself, and therefore to how your parent is challenged.

Liberate yourself from these wounds, and your connection with your children will be restored.

The moment you can meet your Fears with Love, your Love for your children is free from the burden of “I’m not enough”.

Your connection to your children is a mirror to your inner world. 

Heal your inner world and the connection is restored.

You’ll never regret taking action on learning to heal and turn to Love.
Your children are desperate for you to crack open and trust your heart.

So my dear - love thyself. Meet Fear, with Love.