How to have the most remarkable relationship

Uncategorized Oct 13, 2022

I'm very clear that the quality of your relationships is the number 1, most influential factor in your experience of fulfilment, belonging, and knowing you matter. 

Here is what I know to be true to be the vessel of someone that has the mastery of creating remarkable relationships

1. You know how to Receive.

2. You know how to Surrender.

3. There is a deep, fierce trust within yourself. 

4. You know when you're in your inner-wounded child, the depleted experience of yourself - and all the associated patterns, and you take 100% ownership. You have a manual on when you're in your lower self and how to move forward.

5. You bring your Highest Self to your relationship IRRESPECTIVE of what the other person does. You have a manual on the habits and choices based on who you "be" as your Higher Self.

6. You're focused on "win-win".

7. Conflict for you is an opportunity for more intimacy, connection, and deeper knowing.

8. Your relationship isn't based on "feelings" and "feel-good chemical reactions" - it's a sacred space which you use to realise your edges, limitations, and the opportunity for healing.

9. You see the other. You feel the other. You understand the other. AND you have no question or doubt, it isn't even a concern whether "they love you". You feel it, you receive it, and you feel safe in it. The focus isn't on the "ordinary fears" around a Loss of Love. The focus is on how to be better together, grow together, and not leave each other behind. 

Growth is in the top 2 values for all my clients.

Growth without Heart, growth without being grounded, and growth when it is from a place of trauma means you are willing to outgrow the other person, and you're doing it alone. You're not in communication and sharing your growth. 

Real growth is also the commitment to keep your Heart open to the other person, for both of you and for the relationship.

The most powerful relationships are safe and grounded; filled with joy, ease and flow; and are sourced in true power with conversations and choices that have everyone in the relationship thrive. EVERYONE. Not one, both.

When a relationship is one-sided, and the other person needs to compromise, settle, or abandon their needs, wants, and truth - that's not a relationship that is healthy. 

It will eventually break down.

A relationship where you are your Highest Self, and you bring your Highest Self - that's true Freedom. 

It's freeing to love the other, and it freeing to be loved by the other.

So my question to you is this, does the Love you give "free" the other? Is your Love a joy to Receive?....and is it a joy for them, to be loved by you?

Sending love,

Yummii xx


PS There are only 3 more months left to apply to be in my high-level Mastermind and go on a journey of embodying living from your Highest Self.

This is a breakdown, step-by-step, putting into practice the decades of inner work that you've already done and have trouble "being".

This isn't something you're going to find in a book or something I learnt from somewhere else. It is my own unique perspective, knowing, and embodying that I'm passing on.

AND this will alter the generational legacy of your family. I have no doubt. 

IF previous generations can pass down hurt, pain, and disappointment - we can also have the ability to pass down, joy, flow, and ease.

Apply here.

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