How we fail our children...

Do you sometimes feel you're failing your children?

Or do you sometimes feel you wish you had someone tell you exactly what to do so you don't screw this up?

Or are you constantly worried and trying to be so perfect that you can't seem to relax and enjoy the journey of being a parent?

....and then that turns into guilt, shame, or regret?

Do you want to find out how we really fail our children?

...I can tell you - and once I do share this, ignorance is no longer bliss.

There is no turning back from here.

Are you ready...?

This is the one thing you do that would fail your children...

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When you turn away from your Heart, for you. 

For every time you turn away from your Heart, you're in your mind... and when your mind is in the driver's seat of your relationships - its intention is NOT connection or Love. The mind has one intention when it's hijacked - survival. 

Want to know how you can tell when you're living from your mind over your Heart?

 When you absolutely accept and love who you are. This is called Wholeness. 

What if I shared with you that parenting is the most healing and transformative journey you'll ever partake in?

Why? - Because you have to look at your stuff, and it's unavoidable.

You can only guide others to the degree to which you fully embody your authenticity, your vitality, your sustainability, your prosperity, and the generosity you have with yourself.

The more you take care of yourself and create a vibration of high frequency (Wholeness) that is in alignment with the TRUEST and HIGHEST part of you - the more you give room for your children to grow into and be inspired by and to aspire to - being in the same alignment with the energy that you yourself are occupying.

That's why parenting is ALL energetics. 

It doesn't matter what you do - it doesn't matter what you say - it matters who you BE.

AND who you BE is reflected in the space and connection between how much they trust you and find safety in your energy. 

You can GIVE your children things and experiences. You can TALK all you want....and that's why nothing is improving the connection.

Your "Being" is something you cannot hide.

I believe that being a parent in this time and space is the most important work on the planet right now.

The more we can fully tap into our "wholeness", the more we can Love ourselves. The more we break free from inherited generational patterns of lack, separation, defensiveness, and attachment to needing to control life. 

.....So then you might ask, Yummii - how do I get to a place of Wholeness?

Krishnamurti says it so beautifully. To understand Love, you have to understand what is not Love.

To understand Wholeness - you have to understand what is not Wholeness.

For.... every time you play out the story of how broken you are, or how you're not enough, how unworthy you are, how there is something wrong with you, how you're unlovable, how you're a disappointment - that is the lens and energy in which you bring to your relationship with your children. 

The failing our children doesn't come from how we treat them; the failing comes from not honouring the gift of parenting - and the Highest expression of parenting is this.

Living from the Heart - and to be guided by our highest and most authentic self.

If you really don't want to fail your children - the practice is this.

Learn how to Love on you. Learn how to receive Love. Learn and feel safe being in the energy of Love.

This is a training specifically on failing our children and returning to Love.

Once you know, there's no turning back.

My gift to you. 

Sending Love,

Yummii xx