You're so hard on yourself that you think it's normal. And that's a problem. The real pain of this problem is that your children will "know" you love them, and they will never feel good enough to "receive" your love. I know you see it. You see them being hard on themselves. You see them needing everything to be perfect. You see them weighed down by the weight of the world....and nothing is ever good enough. Exactly like you... You didn't want to raise "little me's" that carry the baggage that you had to carry and it's not working out. Here's why. You don't know how to have fun. You don't know how to relax. You want to be in control of everything and want to get things done. You want the house perfectly clean before you can feel "at ease". You struggle to accept the blessings and good things around you... because you feel you don't deserve it, and you'll find a reason to push it away. And.. I know you know what to do. You know all the techniques and strategy... and 21 years from now, your children would say; "She knew the right technique to use to make it look like I was loved, and she didn't really see me for who I am..." My clients call me their guardian angel. As their guardian angel, I support them to trust life, trust themselves, and trust that they are worthy and enough. They know this in every cell of their being to be truth. So, as a guardian angel, here is the message you need to hear if you want to release your children from your baggage: 1. You need to learn how to trust yourself and trust life. You are NOT your to-do list and your worthiness isn't dependent on how clean your house. That cycle of guilt is one of the most unloving and toxic habits that you're keeping in place that's going to cost you your relationship with your children and with yourself. Nothing will change if you keep turning to guilt. My clients stop holding their breath when they work with me. They release their grip on life... and finally, feel free. For some, the very first phone call with me have them feeling the most relaxed and safe they have ever felt in their entire life. If you and I can get on a call, I'll show you specifically the three things you can start working on to be free on being hard on yourself and freeing your children. It'll also be the thing that saves your marriage. I have 3 spots. Click this link and apply. Yummii xx PS You are unique. So are your children. That's why the "parenting strategies" aren't working. Click the link. I know I can help. |
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