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As a parent, you have an unfair advantage. In its Highest Expression, Parenting from your Highest Self is a force. 

It will have you think differently, see opportunities where you couldn't see them before, and be open to creating a different way of life - that can be abundant and thriving for all.

I believe - that you can make more money, work fewer hours because you're a parent - and...

If you are in a cycle of having the same arguments over and over again, or if you're in a cycle of constantly being triggered by your children...

Or in a cycle of just not having any energy and surviving...

It's really hard to give Love with nothing in the tank - and I know you're trying your best.

What you have to realise, though, is the place from which you're giving creates more heartbreak...

I know you're really really trying. You're holding it all together... and you're trying to keep your $h!t together so your children don't see you falling apart...

And I see you.... I get it... I know you're really trying. 

Am I doing everything right?

Am I making sure they are ok?

Can they come to me when they are upset?

All of this is weighing heavy on you... 

This is a short...

Do you ever feel like you're having the same argument, same conflict, same tension with your partner/ children over and over - and it's not going anywhere?

Does it seem defeating, and it's as though you can't find a way forward?

And do you find yourself in these times either being defensive, needing to be right and having the last say, stonewalling and being really guarded, or even the worst...

There's something about me that you might not know...

I use to struggle in relationships.

And when I say struggle, I found relationships (including friendships) hard, challenging, and I could never believe that I was "wanted", or anyone enjoyed my company. 

This went well into my 30's. 

When friends would call and ask to hang out - My immediate thought would be, "I have nothing to...

Do you sometimes feel you're failing your children?

Or do you sometimes feel you wish you had someone tell you exactly what to do so you don't screw this up?

Or are you constantly worried and trying to be so perfect that you can't seem to relax and enjoy the journey of being a parent?

....and then that turns into guilt, shame, or regret?

Do you want to find out how we really fail our children?

We all want deep connection - with our children, with our partners/ spouses....and unconsciously we push them away.

I was asked this question on a podcast interview this week:

"What do we do as parents, that destroy the connection with our children?"

It's a powerful question. 

This is my take.

The 3 things you do, that kill the connection between your child and you (and really with you and...

Yummii,

I never saw parenting as a job...

I understand it's often described this way... and it never landed with me.

However, lately - I've been thinking... if parenting was a job... what's the actual work? What's really needed?

....and the way we answer those questions is all unique to where our consciousness is.

For someone who values living from the Mind, the work would be centred around "...